almost here! getting anxious for my day! couple advice questions. 1. howdo I stress to the wedding party how much I need them to be on time,etc without looking like bridezilla? 2. my photographer has been seriously great but my day of coordinator just made a passive aggressive comment about her today and now i'm wondering if they've worked together before and it wasn't good?? I sure it's not important but everything is freaking me out haha 3. want to put together a little Cincinnati gift for the hotel rooms of our OOT guests but don't want to spend much. Thoughts? Thanks!!