I just wanted to take a minute to thank all of the nice people on here that I have encountered. I have gotten some really, really useful information and contacts for my upcoming wedding. As an older bride, things have really changed over the years and I was really lost and overwhelmed by a lot of the planning. This board has really been a godsend for me and has saved me a lot of money and has giving me great ideas to make my wedding just how I imagined. I got off to a rough start and still continue to get snarky comments here and there, but please remember to be kind to the newbies. We are still learning about the board and don't know proper terms and rules but we are learning. Newbies hang in there and don't get discouraged by some posters who are out for blood. Just ignore them. Most of them are women who have already had their wedding and I am not sure why they are still on here anyway if only to criticize. Again, thanks so much to all the NICE girls out there that sincerely want to help other future brides out....you have made a world of difference in my wedding!