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July 2012 Weddings

Need to Vent!

I have had two bridesmaids which includes two flower girls back out via text. One groomsman back out via a phone call better than a text in my mind. My maid of honor is clueless and only helps if she finds the task "fun". And the best man is worthless! I'm so frustrated with my fiancee's supposed "best friend"! He texted me the week before what was supposed to be the bachelor party saying that he couldn't afford the concert tickets for the bachelor party even though he was only paying for himself and the groom which I can sort of understand financially. But then the night of the cancelled party, he sends my fiancee a bunch of pictures from the concert! He spent the bachelor party money on tickets for himself and his on again/ of again girlfriend! Sorry for being irritated but seriously.... Now my brother has stepped up and is throwing the bachelor party a camping trip, has done a ton of work throughout the planning process, and has gotten really close to my fiancee, that I feel he should replace the best man. However, I am leaving the decision up to my fiancee who doesn't want to hurt the best man's feelings.. Gahh!... I'm just so full of resentment toward the best man for letting my fiancee down, I am worried it will ruin our day.... Okay... Just needed to get that out!
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Re: Need to Vent!

  • I'm sorry this is happening. Are there other groomsmen in the wedding too? I would just say leave it between your FI and the BM. Your FI probably can talk to the BM and see what's going on.

    I hope your wedding day will go smoothly. Remember it is all about you and your FI in the end. Don't let anyone ruin your day.
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  • yeah there is a lot of best man drama on this board for some reason...I would just leave it between your FI and his guys...they're grown ups...
  • I guess I just feel like they don't realize how important this event is in our lives. Or they just don't care! But someone recently asked me "What is the one thing that could RUIN your wedding?" And the only answer that makes sense is "if the groom didn't show up". So I guess no matter how bumpy the road to the wedding is, we'll get through it together.
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