My mom and sister have offered to throw a shower for me and they have asked me to make a guest list.
I started working on it and have 40 people so far and I'm not sure if that is too many for a shower. I'm including all of my aunts and female cousins, even though I'm pretty sure some of them won't come b/c they live across the country. I'm also not sure if I should include some of my FI's family that I know (right now I just have his mom and his SIL).
Is it more rude to invite ppl you really don't expect to come (and run the risk of seeming gift grabby for inviting them) or to just not invite them? I'm probably over thinking it, but I like getting your guy's input on this stuff.