My Fiancee and I have everything we need. So I found a good site and registered for our honeymoon to Hawaii.
I like the site because our guests just aren't giving us money and not really knowing for it is even for. They can buy things like horseback riding on the beach, couples massage, flowers in the hotel room, romantic dinner etc I even included a $25.00 gift that is called every little bit helps so guests who have been hit by the big R don't have to fork out. Then I thought maybe for thank you cards we could include pictures (G rated DUH) of us on our honeymoon to make it personal to each guest. Time consuming but I feel like it is well deserved. Plus I found an amazing place on VRBO for a really inexpensive price!
My fiancee is really freaked out that we won't get enough money from our guests. Whenever I talk about the honeymoon he starts talking about how much is everything going to cost. He kind of gets a little wound up saying he needs to work a ton of overtime to cover our honeymoon which makes me feel bad because I don't want him to stress out, and then And I am like it wont be that expensive and I tell him how much after the guests contribute.
PS I'm saving my $$$$$$ too.
Am I being too "ohh it's fine" or is he?