My first question should probably be is either of these places good for a honeymoon if you are trying to relax and have a romantic honeymoon? We're looking for something that has stuff to do, but not a ton of "must see" attractions. We'd love something close to the water. I've never been to California so I have no idea what to expect. Second question- if you think this would work for us would you stay in Napa and take a day to visit San Francisco or the other way around? TIA for your input!