I posted this on the March 2010 board but thought people here might have some thoughts.We're getting closer to booking our HM, and while I'm super excited, there's an element of stress. Based on our research and what our TA has said (used her before but only for plane tickets), we're thinking Aruba. I went on TripAdvisor and saw that some of the high rated hotels both there and on here have a few awful reviews. I know even the best places have some unhappy customers, but one stuck out. Someone said he thinks the hotel (think this was the Bucuti) has great reviews because most people are honeymooners who haven't traveled much and don't have the expectations of a more experienced traveler. At first I thought that was a bit presumptuous, but it's probably true that a lot of people have their first big trip on their HM.Now I'm worried as to whether we'll end up disappointed. I know it's silly, since I've traveled a lot (without a TA) and things usually go just fine, but I think because it's our HM I feel like it has to be the most amazing trip ever. I know it will be because we'll just be so happy to be married, but there's this weird pressure. Anyone else feel like this?I've been reading the Aruba posts, but any further insight into where you stayed/what you did and how you liked it would be great. Thanks!