So, my mom and stepfather have been married for quite a long time - (15 years). My mom told me that they are essentially "done" and will likely be getting divorced. I'm not close with him so it doesnt really bother me but it is stressing me out from the wedding side of things. My mom is 3 hours away and can't really drive here by herself for the wedding. Keep in mind, our wedding VERY small, just my dad, stepmom, mom, (was going to be stepfather but he'll be gone), my fi's parents and fi's daughter. We rented a bed and breakfast for 3 days and rooms for everyone. There is limited room and we will fill it up. A few months ago, my mom and stepfather were fighting and she indicated she wanted to bring my 25 year old brother who would not enjoy the wedding in any way shape or form - or my grandma....... (my grandfather is deceased). My grandma is kind of difficult to deal with - but more importantly - my paternal grandparents were not invited either as it was to be very small and just our immediate family. If my mom brings my grandma - my dad will be upset that his parents weren't invited and my grandparents might be upset that they weren't invited even though they are too fragile to travel. I know this seems petty... my mom and stepfather have been fighting and growing apart for years - it was only a matter of time. I guess I just needed to vent. I didn't want to have to think about this with only 80 days to go.