I need some opinions and help! Originally, we were going to do a dark charcoal grey suit. Then, we switched over to a "casual" tux - bow tie, no vest, no cumberbund. Now we are back to grey suits. I don't know what to do!
Here is my dress, BM dresses, and both groomsmen attires. We are getting married at The Barns at Wesleyan Hills so I really feel we could go either way.

BM dresses:

Grey suit:

Tux: