My fiance's parents have voiced their opinions on traditional "events" happening at our wedding. My future brother-in-law got married last October and they didn't do any of the traditional things and they were quite upset about it. My mother has also said she really wants me to do the bouquet toss. My feeling about the garter toss is that it is completely out of my comfort zone. I am rather conservative and having my future husband putting his hands up my dress in front of 175 people really makes me uncomfortable. Do I suck it up and just do it to avoid confrontation, or is there something else we can do without compromising my comfort level? Is this a weird thing to be anxious about?? I watched how many issues there were for my fiance's brother's wedding and I don't want any unneeded drama attached to our wedding! Uggh! Any advice will be greatly appreciated!