So we are trying to figureo ut the groom's attire. We were going to go with charcoal grey suits with ties but I couldn't help but feel bad because my fiance really wanted to wear a tux. Originally, I thought that a tux was too formal for our wedding but I have been seeing some more casual ones pop up on different blogs at vineyard weddings and elegant, backyard weddings.
I think we are going to gow ith this kind of tux:


More casual, no cumberbund or vest. Just a jacket, pants and bowtie. Also, the lapels aren't shiny, satin so I think it gives it a more casual feel.
Anyway, just wanted to give you an idea of what it will look like. My question is - my dress is ivory lace. Should my fiance and his groomsmen order white shirts or ivory shirts? I don't want my dress to look dirty or dark in pictures.
Here's a pic of my dress as well: