So the FI and I are planning what we call a familymoon instead od a honeymoon. I have 2 children from a previous, but we have been a family for the past 8yrs. So the FI and I feel since we are not just 2 people getting married we are a family getting married we are all in this together. We have been getting a bunch of what I think are rude comments from the FI's family about taking the kids with us. We feel this is a personal decision and really none of their beeswax, we explained the above to them and we keep getting these snarky faces that 1 we are postponing it until Oct because of FI's work schedule and 2 that we are bringing the kids. I admit at first I did not want to bring the kids, but the FI explained his feelings and felt the kids should join us they are not little kids where it might be an issue we are talking about young teenagers. I am just getting tired of the rolling of the eyes and snarky comments....has anyone else ever delt with this?