We are only having a maid of honor and best man in the wedding party. Is it rude that I am not paying for the maid of honors dress/hair and make up? I asked her if she wanted to go with my mom and i to my moms friends salon because we are getting our hair and make up done for a reasonable price but i didnt say she has to get it professionally done. She hasnt really spoken to me since I asked her about the salon so I am wondering if she is annoyed with me...What are you all paying for in terms of your wedding partys dresses/tuxes, hair and make up?