So we were hoping to close on the 8th, but it feels like the lender is taking their time gathering information and sending them off to underwriting. We sent almost everything weeks ago and they're still saying that they're working on verifiying some of the information. They say it'd be "really really" difficult to close on the 8th, possibly not for another 2 weeks. AHH!!
My mom is supposed to come for 4 days to help us clean & move and I don't want to wait any longer!
And FMIL keeps asking us if we can watch FI's younger brother (he's 21 and has Downs) in the middle of everything! They are going to Las Vegas and thought that the brother would love it if he stayed with us.
We live an hour away and we'd need to drive a lot and FI works six days a week. What annoys me the most is there are a lot of family who live near them who can watch him easily. We are trying to plan a wedding, I'm trying to work on my license, we are cleaning and packing everything, we were working hard on finding a new tenant for our current house, and we have no idea when we can close.
I feel like FMIL doesn't think! She thinks everything is a great idea and thinks we have all the time in the world to do everything. As a matter of fact when we moved into our current house, FMIL suggested that the brother live with us permanently. HUH?? I feel like she tends to put me in an awkward position by asking me something directly while it should be left between her and FI.
Ok I will stop now. Thanks for listening. I kinda feel better.