I found this Etsy shop:
http://www.etsy.com/shop/BeholdenBridal?section_id=8122456 I am planning to make this weekend my last weekend of searching for the perfect purple ballet flats...if I can't find them, I am going to have this designer make some custom blingy lilac ones for me!
I have been messaging with her, and she is super sweet and responds very quickly. Every bride that has ordered from her has left positive feedback, so hopefully it will be a good experience!