Has anyone come up to you and said this? How do you respond? I've had several people say this to me and it makes me feel so bad because I had no intentions of inviting them. We're not close friends or anything. It just makes me so mad because I work with them and I just think it's so inconsiderate. This isn't some house party where you can invite anyone and and your friends, this is a very expensive event and we have over 100 people that's just family.