I am not trying to get out of giving giftrs to the men, women, and kids that are a part of the ceremony. But, when they are all out of state and aren't doing anything to hep with the planning and coordinating of the wedding, I wonder: what is the gift really for? I always thought that the gift was a "thank you" for all the help they provided. . . .
And. . . what is a reasonable dollar amount??