We have been engaged for a couple of months now but with the holidays...it has been so busy. I have a meeting with paradise cove next weekend but I don't think that they are available for the date that I want, September 22. So I am trying to find more options. I really want something outside that is on the water, or that there is water somewhere close. We are going to be paying for most everything ourselves so weare kind of on a budget. Any suggestions of other venues? Also, does it save more to pick your own vendors or choose from a package?