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ashbosity

I posted this on the Invites and Paper board, but didn't get much response, so I was hoping you ladies could help. My cousin is divorced and has a son that she and her ex have joint custody of. She has him on the weekends and he during the week. I plan on inviting both parents, but don't know on which invite I should include the son. Anyone know? Thanks!

ChelC24

I think I would put the son on the invitation with the parent he's closer to. Would you happen to know if he's more connected to his mom versus his dad? Or vice versa. Or maybe put him on the invitation to each parent. Just know that when the reply comes in that the son is counted once not twice by accident since it's the same person :P. If that makes sense. Hope that helps!

tasharocks

i don't know what's proper etiquette wise, but i'd include the son on the invite of the parent that has him on Fridays since your wedding is on a Friday

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meghanmcadams

Who ever has primary care, which sounds like Dad since he has him during the week.

Theresa626

Maybe you could put him on both invitations.  When they respond, just only count him once in your count.  Are you inviting each parent with a guest?  If so, write in their name, their son's name and guest and ask them to check who is coming.  

megan10103

I would put him on your cousins invite, since she is family and she is the mother?