So, my maid of honor sent me an evite to my bachelorette party. It basically just says the time and date and says that we will be eating dinner somewhere and going to a party hot spot and everything is a surprise for me so don't tell. But, then it says in small letters underneath that each person is responsible for their own food and beverage, etc. Does this mean I'm paying for myself at the party? Because it's one thing if they can't afford to pay for me but if that is true.... I kind of want say in where we go and what we do if I have to pay for myself. I don't really want to be surprised with something I have to pay for.
However, about a month ago, she asked me how much I drink when I go out and I said usually about two drinks and she said "oh good because Bridesmaid A and I were a little worried about paying for your drinks but it should be ok as long as you don't drink a lot". So, maybe she meant that for the other bridesmaids have to pay for themselves and not for me? I kind of want to ask but I can't really think of a polite way to ask her about this. I don't want to sound rude or greedy. I've talked to her recently and she asked me if I got the email and I said yes but she didn't say anything else. What would you guys do?