I am Greek Orthodox and my FI is Lutheran. We have been trying to find a way to have both of our priests perform the wedding ceremony in some way or have one make some sort of a blessing. We have found so many beautifull outdoor venues, and what I want is an outdoor ceremony.
Well, the Greek priest only performs ceremonies at the church, and usually does not come out to any outside locations.
Basically, having the Greek priest at my wedding is for my dad. To me, God is God, and getting married in a church shouldn't make your marriage any more valid than the next. My mom said if a greek priest cannot be present, she said she knows my dad wont pay for the wedding.
I am just sick to my stomach. First of all, my dad goes to church 2x a year, and this is all being in CONTROL, and he loves to be in control.
I can't blame my FI for wanting his priest there. we go to his church every week, and his priest knows us personally. But it's a shame we cannot get cooperation from both sides, especially when their religion is basically the same.
My mom said there are some things that I just have to do. This just seems out of line.