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Timeline for Laotian-American Reception

Hello Everyone!
I'm Laotian, but my FI is Caucasian. We're doing a traditional ceremony at my family's house and then having the reception later in the evening.

So my question is mostly about how we should plan out the reception. Now, I'm going off of how my cousins have planned theirs. They normally introduce the families, they have their first dance, and then walk around inticing guests with shots. After that the bridal party usually changes into their American outfits and cuts the cake.

I do want to incorporate some Lao traditions into the reception, but it's a smaller guest list than the normal blown out 500+ parties. I'd say 1/3 of our list is reserved for Laotian friends and family (while the other 2/3 is the groom's side and our mutual friends). I prefer smaller, intimate events.

So my problem is that the event allows us to rent out the venue for 5 hours. The first hour is reserved for cocktails and then dinner follows with dancing afterwards. I'm afraid that doesn't give me much time to eat, talk to guests, and change outfits in the middle of it. Any suggestions for how I should go about this? What are you doing for yours? Or what did you do for yours?
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Re: Timeline for Laotian-American Reception

  • edited December 2011

    I am having a Lao wedding as well. FI is Caucasian

    Could you cut down on your cocktail hour and make it shorter? Any part you and your family are willing to cut out? Cake cutting or shots to everyone?

     

     My wedding is the full blown out 500 person Lao wedding. The only plus is the hall can only fit 550 tops! So at least I have a limit. :)

    Here is mine:

    Formal picture taking (I can't figure out when to do it..so before it is )

    Then Lao ceremony at hall

    Cocktails for guests while I take some more pictures with family. Lao guests who don’t come to the ceremony trickle in.

    Speeches introducing families

    Eating

    Cake cutting/dancing

    Then change into western outfit

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