Is anyone doing this asian cutsom in their stateside wedding??
My FI and I have been together for many years and have an established household. We really don't need any household items and would really like to use the cash we could get from the wedding for a down payment on a house. What is the best way to ask for this polietly? I live in Atlanta and most of our guests aren't familiar with asian customs.
All suggestions are greatly appreciated! Thanks!