OK i know everyone has their own style and everything but who said that weddings need to be so uptight and formal that people need to wear cumberbunds (however you spell it)? My wedding is so off that well beaten path that it's hard to find cheaper and unique laid back things. I dont't know how else to explain it. My wedding is casual, outdoors, DIY, fun and mostly unique. There will be no huge and expensive wedding dress, no tux's, no diamond jewelry (except my rings) just laid back. My bouquet will be made of shells and so will my FI's bout. Like i said everyone has their own style and good for you but there has to be some brides with the same tastes and styles as me. If there are any ide like to chat with you and share ideas.