Long story short my fiance wants out wedding to be outdoors, but I am worried about the weather. He doesn't want to get married at his church, and I really don't have a church. His parents are divorced and were married in his church, which I understand. But yesterday during the Christmas service he was thinking about getting married in the church, but when I started to get more into the subject he said he wanted to get married outside.
My HUGE concern is the wedding. To be honest, I will be horribly upset if it is too cold or rains on our wedding day. We already made the non-refundable downpayment ($400) for the outdoor site. The church would be for free and the community center would only cost us $500 compared to the $800 we still have to pay for the outdoor site. The only benefit of this outdoor wedding is that there is a house where my parents, his parents, and a few other relatives can stay and the dogs.
The only option if it did rain would have to be holding the cermoney in the reception hall. It is already a very tight squeeze in there. At times, I want to kick myself for letting him pick and choice things for this wedding.
And the guy that owns this place told us three hundred people could fit in there, ya right. You can only put 8 banquest tables on the first floor, and the second floor we can use but it's closed off. Then we can open up the barn doors on both sides and set tables out but in all honesty I would feel bad during that to my guests. The place is awesome, I'll admit to that, but I don't think people are going to walk around and check out the awesome stuff. We can not cut the guest list, we already did a major butcher job to it.
So what do I do? Just say no and we are doing at the church or do i hope like no other the weather is not bad. I know the wedding day is about us getting married, not the wedding, but if I am putting all thsi work into it I want to be happy too.
Here is the site for the venue.
http://thegrainerylodge.com/