There was a bride on my gothic weddings board looking for ceremony readings. She was looking for something that included a memorial for some loved ones that had passed away. I thought it sounded beautiful so I started searching. I didn't find exatly what she was looking for, but I know that if she wanted she could add a memorial candle ligthing to one of the ceremonies that was most fitting for her situaion.
I was scared to respond because that is actually the part of my own wedding that I wanted to avoid. As sensitive and sentimental of a person I am, I was scared to have to search for a reading or write my own vows! I found this site that offers a collection of ceremony readings that are mostly non-religious, but are still very spiritual. I actually found one for our wedding!!!
Here's the link if anyone needs it.I believe only the first 5 readings are free, but that was enough for me to read through. I chose reading #3 because it involved children bringing a gift to the couple during the ceremony. I was so excited to find this! It was absolutely perfect for us! The other readings are just as amazing...Elegant Vows