I'm getting married on October 8, 2011. I'm in need of some serious help. Due to budget I must DIY as much as I can and need help on deciding centerpieces and decor for my venue. I love almost anything vintage, but I also adore the victorian era. I love drippy candles and Lace. Almost anything with a classy, but romantic feel. The problem is since my colors for the wedding is black, dark red, and white I don't know how to incorporate the colors into my decor. I am having red roses for my flowers and bridal party. The girls will be in black dresses and red pumps. I was thinking about a damask style runner with possibly some votives and hurricanes wrapped in lace on top, but Lace... I need Lace!! I'm lost... someone please help.