So my FI and I are paying for about half of the wedding. Which by the way the guest list went from 50 ppl to 300 ppl. Anyways, my parents are paying for catering, staff, flowers and the renovation of their house since wedding will be there.... FI and i are paying everything else.. cake, candelabras, dress, photo, video, make up, etc.... anyways..... the point is that he makes more $ then me so most of the forking up is on his side (we do share bank account) and he chooses expensive things like example: photographer and cake - he likes the cake and then i find out the price and he gets MAD!!!!! but he wont choose another more affordable cake!! then the photographer. we got manolo from infocus, i love him - ive known him for years since hes worked with my parents for everrrr but FI chooses a more expensive package and when i tell him "pay up the deposit" he's like "im under so much pressure to make $ to pay for all this"
i just got up from couch went to room and went to bed, 5 min later he comes in apologizing and says im sorry. i know he is sorry but it still hurts and i tell him that which he understands at the moment but next time i bring up a deposit he gets mad again. so annoying!!!!!!! anyone else have this problem?