Ahhhh just got a call from one of my friends that FI and I asked to be in our wedding party. N was going to be a groomsman, and his gf S one of my BMs. They made a last minute decision to move from NJ to FL probably in Dec or Jan this upcoming year, and are dropping out of the WP. They're not even sure if they are going to be able to come back to NJ for the actual wedding
Kinda bummed as they are both close friends, they are worried about not being able to commit to being part of any of the prewedding festivities (bachelor & bachelorette parties, showers, etc). I don't even care about that stuff, but if they're not comfortable with the whole thing, I'm not going to guilt trip them or anything. Blahh... just sucks