Ok - so they 'say' it happens in 3's and on Monday we lost another special person in our life ... as most of you know the 1st wk of june my fi lost his stepfather to cancer - on the last wk of june i lost my 93 yr great grandfather and on monday one of co workers - the sweetest lady ever unexpectedly passed away !! Ahhhh - i really dont know if my heart can take much more saddness =( Thanks for letting me get that off my chest !!