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+1 phone calls!

rclnd83rclnd83 member
500 Comments
in Florida-South Florida
So invitations went out on monday and the phone calls are already coming in for the +1! Not cool! Why! I'm sticking to my count as long as I can. I hope I don't break down.
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  • faeriedustfaeriedust
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Already???? People don't waste anytime!!
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  • TheJenniusTheJennius
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    edited December 2011
    Wow, that was fast! Are you going to give in?
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  • BebekahBebekah
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Dang! Already?! Stick to your guns girl!
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  • angie74angie74
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    learn to say no, & practice repeating it often
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  • PinkShoesGalPinkShoesGal member
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I don't get it....I would never have the guts to call the bride and ask that. Stay strong!
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  • zobo410zobo410 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Hellz to the no!
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  • Anagloria83Anagloria83
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    I don't envy you.  I dunno what I'm gonna do!  2 thumbs up for sticking to your count.
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  • TheJenniusTheJennius
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    edited December 2011
    I'm with Morgan. I wouldn't call and ask "Can I bring my ...?"I'm very scared of unplanned +1s, so I'm writing on the RSVP cards "2 seats have been reserved in your honour" <<< idea from this board!
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  • grace_anthonygrace_anthony
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    edited December 2011
    i also wrote it in my rsvp's and still got the phone calls. some nerve!!
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  • YHFoxtrotYHFoxtrot
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    wow, sounds like no matter what this ALWAYS happens. I am anticipating it with one or two people who I have decided if they ask, I'll probably let them bring someone but I still think it's insane how much this happens! Wow! Good Luck hon!
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  • EliNickEliNick member
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Don't break...don't do it!
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  • goldie3474goldie3474
    2500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    ughhhh so not looknig forward to this.
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  • Kitty315Kitty315 member
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    edited December 2011
    Don't cave!! Grr.. some people..
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  • citytoshore09citytoshore09 member
    1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    we wrote in the number of guests on the RSVPs and it REALLY helped. 1-2 people RSVP'd no b/c we didn't give them a guest, but i didn't want them anyway! stick to your guns girl!
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  • rclnd83rclnd83 member
    500 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Thanks advice ladies. Even with a written RSVP number the phone calls are coming in. Its time for momma dukes you let these people know What's the deal. I might take your advice cityshore.. Gosh! ::sigh::
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  • JillianLLJillianLL member
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    edited December 2011
    Ugh I am dreading this! Stay strong girl!!
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  • clovonneptclovonnept member
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    edited December 2011
    I've been dreading this too! I am foregoing RSVP cards to be a little more environmentally friendly and going with an online RSVP -- and therefore cannot write in a predetermined number! After reading of everyone's troubles, I want to add something in there like "As much as we would like to accommodate everyone's guests, we are on a tight budget..." but I don't want to phrase it the wrong way. Any suggestions as to how I can be as polite as possible while still saying DON'T WRITE IN GUESTS THAT ARENT INVITED??
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