surgery postponed...

TtotheG

i'll post about it tomorrow. right now im going to go drown in some ben and jerrys.

zobo410

=(  I'm sorry Tess.

YHFoxtrot

oh no!!! What??? I hope it's not post poned til too long from now!

cinthia122

I hope everything is ok.

latinachica29

Do I need call the docs, insurance comps, send threatening letters!??! I'm so sorry babe! ::big big hugs:: I really hope you get better news ASAP. This isn't fair!We love you Tess!!

Kitty315

Dammit!!! Why?! ugh.. this sucks. I hope you don't have to wait too much longer. *huuuuuge hugs* =\

tazdvl3

Ugh. I 'm so sorry. Everything has been so frustrating for you. Enjoy your ice cream. You deserve it!

citytoshore09

love you! hope everything's okay!

courtneybrooke921

what?!?! what happened?? you. I'm so sorry!!

oyepooh

I hope this isn't because of insurance stupidities.  Hang in there.

TtotheG

No. Insurance has nothing to do with it, though that was far easier to deal with. In a nut shell - we just can't afford it right now. Our old bank really sent us through a loop. We went on the 13 of July to close accounts, but they were never closed. So our bills came out two (some three) times this month. Most of the companies will not offer a refund for the extra money, just a credit for the next month. I thought we were going to be able to get our money back, but doesn't look like it. It's ok - we're not lost in this forever because at least next month I don't have to pay some bills.Anyway, the hospital also wants $700 as a co-pay, then $500 to bcbs. Plus hotel stay, food, gas etc. We had budgeted enough $ for the month to pay our bills and get us through till I went back to work, but that money was used to pay off the bank.Fun, huh?So, last night I came to the conclusion that I just have to wait till next month. I'm going to call the Drs office and see if they can't offer my something in early Sept instead. If not, I'll just wait till the end of Sept.This caused a HUGE fight in between my mother and I then my self and Joe. Right now I'm just trying to stay awake (I didn't sleep) and figure out a way to tell my Supervisor I want to go home.I've been non-stop tears since 4:30am and I cannot for the life of me make them stop?Sorry for being such a Debbie Downer... I'll be back to my old, cheery self in no time Promise.

courtneybrooke921

Tess I'm so sorry - cry, cry, cry some more. Then tell your boss you can't work because you need to cry. I love you - September will be perfect for your surgery. So annoying abotu the F'ing banks

avmn10

ugh, wow, sorry so you have to go through this!!

latinachica29

Tess,You're going to have the surgery soon, you're just getting held back right now. I hope saying this doesn't sound stupid, but maybe you weren't meant to have it this month. It's hard to really understand why things happen sometimes, but when it's your turn it will be right.I wish we could make all this go away, but definitely don't hold back on the emotions. You should go home and have some quietness to yourself so you can rest. :hugs:

JillianLL

I'm so sorry hunny Everything will work out when the time is right, the last thing you need is added stress. Dont ask your supervisor, TELL her you're going home

aitirone

Oh Tess I am so sorry. It will all work out, I promise. These are just bumps in the road that i know you are strong enough to deal with!

TtotheG

Thanks girlies :)I'm getting better - going home at 10 to lay in bed with FI and talk to the Drs office. Joanne - FI said the same exact thing. He said what if I'm just not supposed to have the surgery? WHat if something was going to happen, or go wrong?I think what's the hardest for me is that I have to go through another few weeks of pain. I lost a lb (yay!) but because I'm so inflammed, I looked like I'm about 6 months preggers!!

YHFoxtrot

Tess I am so so sorry you are dealing with this. As I told you, I too believe things happen for a reason and maybe this is no exception. Hopefully the doctors can get you in in September so it's just a matter of having to wait a lil longer but you WILL get it done!Sending a ton of hugs your way!!!!

latinachica29

Tess: FI and I are on the same wave length :-)Hope you have an easy afternoon babe!

PinkShoesGal

Tess, I am so sorry to hear about the postponement. Sending lots of hugs and good thoughts your way!

TtotheG

::head into desk:: not only is the Dr being a diva about me wanting to postpone, but my bowel surgeon didn't book my colon scope. Bahhhhh. lolI'm starting to just laugh at all this... because really what else am I gonna do!?

faeriedust

Sorry to hear, Tess. But you are strong and will get through this. Everything will work out in time.

goldie3474

fingers crossed that it works out for you!

**Octoberbride09**

Tess I am so sorry. This really sucks. You'll be in my prayers.

babytec

Sorry babe! I am sure everything will work out just fine! knottie vibes

oyepooh

OMG - what a mess!!  I'm also of the belief that things will happen when they're meant to happen.  Try not to stress about it because that's going to get you anywhere.  ::Sending you good thoughts::