Ok, I'm a little confused here! Whats the difference between the jr. bride and jr bridesmaid other than the fact that one wears a mini bridal gown....Specifically I have a niece thats about 12, so shes too old to be the flower girl...but I want to include her in the wedding. Which role should she play?? And does she need an escort for either one?? ( If I knew how to search on the boards, I would to see if this is something that was already discussed. lol) Thanks for any input! :-)