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Spending the night with Fi

I am planning from away and will need to book hotels for the big day.  I don't have a bridal paraty, and I don't want to be stressed by staying with family (I have loads coming in).  It would save me some money for my Fi and I to book the same hotel room the day before our wedding.  I'm debating if I should do this, because I wanted to the do the whole we can't see each other before our big day.  Anyone else going through this?

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    FaithCaitlinFaithCaitlin member
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    edited December 2011
    We are sleeping apart that day, but personally, if I were in your shoes, I'd just stay with FI.. but, I'd make him get up early, and leave while I hid in the bathroom or something.. I'm not kidding, haha!

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    edited December 2011
    I won't be staying with FI but if I were in your shoes, I would do as Faith said, I would stay with FI and make him leave early. I wouldn't care if he saw me in PJs but he would not see me getting ready or with an ounce of make up on lol, that way he still has no clue until he sees me walking down the aisle.
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    Rainbow17Rainbow17 member
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    edited December 2011

    I have a getting ready room on my day of, so I'll be out the door before Fi even wakes up.  As much as I'd like to do the whole, lets not sleep in the same bed together before the wedding, it'd certainly save us a lot of money.  I was thinking of maybe even getting a suite the day before so we're in separate beds, but again thats more $.

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    edited December 2011
    Stay with him....you'll both sleep more soundly :-)
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    edited December 2011

    I will be spending the night at the hotel while FI sleeps at our place. In your shoes, I would do as the PP said...get up early and you go to a separate "get-ready room", or kick him out asap.

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    edited December 2011
    You can def stay together. As long as you have yoru getting ready room and he wont see you it will be fine. I am kicking my FI out and making him sleep with a friend.
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sleeping at one of my bridesmaids apartments that lives local - were planning from far away too - if there is no friend or family in the area you think would be non-stressful than sleep in the same room but def kick him out early!
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    cmp1986cmp1986 member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_florida-south-florida_spending-night-fi?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:67Discussion:160277b1-1fbb-41be-a592-2f6db4bcce0ePost:df4242c5-75f4-4a5f-a2bf-73d9101a7545">Re: Spending the night with Fi</a>:
    [QUOTE]We are sleeping apart that day, but personally, if I were in your shoes, I'd just stay with FI.. but, I'd make him get up early, and leave while I hid in the bathroom or something.. I'm not kidding, haha!
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    This! LOL
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    twinkle82576twinkle82576 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm staying at my mom's house and FI is staying at our house. I wanted us to stay together, but my mom would not have it. Lol.
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