Confession Wednesday

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Anything bothering you that you just need to let out? Confess away

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I confess I need to write my thank you cards!

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I confess I hate my new job and am so bored everyday! I feel guilty because my dads good friend owns the company and hired me when I was moving but this work is mindnumming and I didn't take out loans for three years of law school to be making the same thing I made going in! Ok that felt a little better

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I confess that I'm still upset that my FMIL bitched at me for not inviting her to go gown-shopping. I went with just my mom and my sister (who is also my MOH). My FMIL was super upset when I told her, said she was, and I quote, "offended" that I didn't ask her to come, especially knowing that she doesn't have any daughters, only sons, and will never get to experience the dress shopping part of it all.

Sorry, but I didn't want to go shopping with a giant entourage. I know her style is completely different from mine. I know I am overwhelmed by too many opinions. And I know that I only wanted the opinions of the 2 most important women in my life.

This all happened right around Mother's Day. She called me out for being inconsiderate in front of my fiance's entire family, and I thought that was rude as hell. So maybe she was just a bit more sensitive around that time. But quite frankly, I don't feel the tiniest bit guilty for not asking her to come along. I don't feel like I did anything wrong. We get along fine, but since then I've not included her in any other wedding planning. 

I don't know if at this point it's better to include her to appease her. I feel a little silly to still be holding a grudge about it after all this time, but I don't exactly know how to approach it.

That DOES feel better!