Hi Ladies,
So a few things have been going on that are bothering me.
First, someone facebooked me that they wont be able to make it to the wedding. I got a little nervous and started to think ...what if we are paying all this money and people don't go. I think I am probably stress and lately I have been only thinking about the negative. Did anyone feel this way or am i going crazy??
The other thing is I am not a materialistic person, but my FMIL got us our wedding gift and I know I am going to sound ungrateful, but she got us a quesadilla maker. It wasnt' even on my registry. Even FI was confused about it. I just thought since she was Fi's mom she would get us something a little better. especially since she has not helped us out at all with the wedding. I thought maybe she was going through a hard financial time, but she just bought her self a new TV and I am not even going to mention the price of her dress for the wedding. Am I being unreasonable to get upset?
And last, My Aunt is one of my BM. Recently one of my GMs dropped out since he is in the military and will be leaving soon to japan he did not want to risk not being here for the wedding. We completely understand. So she was left without someone to walk down the aisle with. I thought ok we will just have 2 BMs walk with one of our GMs and my Mother and Aunt both had a fit. She even wanted to drop out. Which hurts me. My aunt and I are almost the same age and we grow up together. It is important for me to have her be part of such an important day. Then they came up with the Idea of having one of her friends walk with her I said no I don't know who he is... Can you believe they had the nerve to say I was controlling...Am I being controlling?
Sorry its long I just need to get it off my chest!
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