Thank the lord! I REALLY really did learn a lot though and highly recommend you taking a PMC class, even if you are not religious. We took our through a family counseling center.
I HIGHLY, HIGHLY recommend reading (and having FI read also) The 5 Love Languages by Gary Michaels (I think that's the author). It was an amazing book and we both learned ALOT from it!
We are getting half married and doing our second tasting on Thursday! So wish us luck!