Seriously?

YHFoxtrot

7 days away from the RSVP date and I have yet to hear from 84 people.

Seriously? I friggin stamped your frigin envelope.

vent over

jennej24

Oh no! Hopefully they will get back to you within the week. Maybe the mail is already slow because of the holidays?

zobo410

84 people??? Well give it some time. Some people probably aren't thinking because your wedding is still some time off. People!

ayanapooh

That sucks! Makes you not even want to pay for the dayum postage!!! I mean how hard is it to just put that the friggin thing in the mail?!?! GEESH!!!

TheJennius

WHAT. Wow, Jaim.

I'd say to be patient and what Andra said - but from a bride's standpoint ... IT IS NOT DIFFICULT TO RSVP!

Sorry, doll

lyndopo

Think of how much cheaper it will be with only 62 people though! Did u have to guarantee a minimum?

YHFoxtrot

Yes Lynn we have a minimum.. we need at least 90 people to make it. Half the people that haven't RSVP'd I know are coming... like my sister and one of my BM's but I just don't get what's so hard.

My wedding isn't THAT far away. I mean it's a month and a half away. I'd think people would want to make travel arrangements no?

And it's not like I sent them last week. They've been out over a month.

I just HOPE it's not a sign of people not getting the invite at all.. that would really suck b/c I only have 5 invitations left to send.

Ugh.

MIABRIDENTAMPA

Damn slackers!!!! Ughhh!

lyndopo

Slackers!!! Ohhh that would suck if a bunch of people didn't get them!!

Lacey36

oh no! hang in there hun, hopefully you will get a bunch in at a time

YHFoxtrot

Yeah, I'm just cranky today and when I came home to only one envelope I was like WTH??

I know at least 25 people are coming and just haven't sent and I get that this isn't on the top of their lists, and honestly, we have time, I just SOOO don't want to chase people or have to call them.

Fingers crossed that they all start flying in soon...

Thanks for letting me vent girls!

SaraandBenjamin

OHHHHH I'm sorryJaim! Mine were due November 30th and I'm still missing a ton.

WTF people
?!

FutureMrsFezz

That's shittyy! You might think I'm retarted, but I ended up FBing people just so I wouldn't have to call! LOL

 My MOH actually called a few people too.  Hang in there girl, this part is almost over!

YHFoxtrot

Oh no Courthey I will totally FB people! ha ha ha! Email/ FB are much easier than calling and having to talk to people!

I already updated my status once HINTING that they needed to get ON IT!

On another note, I love your siggy!

FutureMrsFezz

Yeah definitely use FB, it's a life saver!
and Thank you! the photobooth pictures are hilarious.

eagles.fan1234

Sorry Jaime. That sucks that you may have to chase people down!

 I always wonder how people can do this, but I just totally missed the RSVP date for my cousins wedding (I sent the RSVP today and it was due on 11/30) so I understand how it can happen.  I just got really busy and I kept forgetting. It happens..........

 I agree with pp who says FB them.

silverrose

You will probably get a buttload of them all at once.  Maybe the mail is slow or backed up because of the holidays and what not. 

If it's the people and not the mail holding things up - WTH, it's not that hard to put a little card in a pre-stamped envelope and mail it people!

vanered15

i'm on the same boat rsvp is the 8th and i still dont have half i hate it


hello there are stamps for a reasons

courtneybrooke921

so annoying!!!!!!!!!!! don't people need to pick their meals??! grrrrr.

goldie3474

wtf people!

TtotheG

I wonder if people think they don't need to send the RSVP when they know we know they are for sure coming. Does that make sense? lol

But, seriously. Check mark what you want to eat, put RSVP in envelope, lick the damn thing & mail. SO EASY.

Ven1

Jaime are you sure your family is not Venezuelan??? I'm pretty sure no oneeeee will be sending me back any rsvp's that's just a fact of life. Sooo I'm going to be calling everyone. 

Sweetcook82

what is so hard about filling out the info and sending it back? it already has a stamp for goodness sake! I dont get it.

JillianLL

Ummm are ppl huge idiots? You couldnt have made it easier for them to send it back! So annoying, I'm sorry love...

clovonnept

Ugggh my nightmare!!! I did my RSVPs online so I thought they would just pour in. Well, they did at first....16 of them. It's come to a complete halt for about a week and a half (I even submitted one just to make sure it was working!!). This is seriously one of my biggest wedding nightmares, but at least there is facebook -- send out a mass message like 'GET EM IN!!!'! But I know how you feel, my parents, bridesmaids, groomsmen and close family have NOT replied yet (though they still have over a month). But they should have been first, I shouldn't have to worry about getting my mom's meal selection ARGH!

jcalixtro

Here I am 2 weeks since my RSVP due date, and they are still coming in slooooooowly. I sent out 100 invites, around 70 are back at this point, and that's with me shooting out emails, having mom make lots of phone calls.  To this day, my own BM (the blonde in all my shower/bach pics) has not sent hers in, claims she's still not sure whether her twin and boyfriend can make it.

End of the day, people don't realize you have deadlines, a caterer to give the final count to, a seating chart to create, chair rentals, certain number of programs menus to print, etc. GRRRRRR

And don't even get me started on the Accommodations Reservations. Our group rate was only available until Dec 4th. I called earlier this week, Lo and Behold-- barely anyone's booked yet. I sent out a massive text to all that were coming for sure, and finally people started calling in.

People are stupid. They need you to hold their hand through the process, do what you must to get those RSVPs in, and good luck Jaime!