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RSVP help!

mpotl001mpotl001 member
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in Florida-South Florida
So we're just now starting to get RSVPs back for our wedding in June, and a bridesmaid invited her boyfriend even though we didn't put his name on the invitation. I normally wouldn't care, but we're on a tight budget so I don't know if we'll be able to swing him (and my FI mom decided to last minute invite her friends >.<). How do we break the news he's not invited? lol
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Re: RSVP help!

  • domiqubanadomiqubana member
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    You and/or fiance obviously care about her enough to make her a part of your wedding party. If she been dating him for a long time I would allow him to come.
    On the other hand if she has not  ...I would sit her down and explain to her your situation...let her know that you would love to be able to invite everyone but you simply can not afford it.
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  • deelopi9deelopi9
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    This is a tough one since your friend is in a relationship. Even though your wedding is not date night I would not say anything until you start getting the RSVP's. As you get closer I would break the news to her. The same goes with FI mom - break it gently that you've reached the max capacity and can not have additional attendees to the wedding to avoid any additional people being invited
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  • FaithCaitlinFaithCaitlin member
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    I'd kindly explain that you are very sorry but can't allow +1s to attend as it's simply not in the budget. I'd tell her kindly but firmly. If she is a friend she should hopefully understand!

    I'm sorry you're in this mess!

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