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Danny&Mel2003

Hey ladies I only pop in a bit it's been very busy since fi moved back home after graduation an finalizing wedding stuff can't even believe we are under 3 months! On to my question, I sent std to my cousin back in Oct. In Jan they told my dad they couldn't make it. They are older my dads age, I already sent invitations last week! Last night my dad says I should still send them invitations, even though they made it clear there not coming. I don't mind doing it I just don't want it to come off as I am asking for a gift. Do I send them invites since they got std?

tirathemrs

IMO If they have already expressed that they wont be able to come I would just not send it and save those few cents on an invite for someone who is actually interested in coming, you basically let them know way in advance that you was getting married and they already said no so my answer again is no LOL

kdjj

If you sent an STD, then you should send an invitation.  Their situation may/could change that would allow them to come. 

HTH

modernage01

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_florida-south-florida_help-28?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:67Discussion:f5aee784-1ade-45db-bfc4-bd16cae4a11bPost:57fc6d76-3974-4cd0-bf21-d6b05e5129b2">Re: Help</a>:
[QUOTE]If you sent an STD, then you should send an invitation.  Their situation may/could change that would allow them to come.  HTH
Posted by kdjj[/QUOTE]

<div>Agreed.  If they get a STD, they should get an invitation as well even if they likely can't come.</div>

Kelesia

I would send them the invite to confirm if they are coming, things may have changed since they spoke to your dad.