I stopped planning our wedding because it just wasn't happening for us. The thought of trying to do weddings things and talk about wedding things was too much of a downer. We have decided we don't want to legally be married for a while, probably 5-10 years. Instead we want to do something like a hand-fasting.
We're not exactly sure what the specifics are when it comes to the actual ceremony, but we will still be having a ceremony and reception. It will just be much smaller. I just figured I would drop in and say that the ball is rolling again. We don't have a definite date yet, but it will probably be next July.