We had a very small intimate wedding, with just our parents,sisters and brothers in attendance. The following day after we were married we told our aunts,uncles and friends that we finally got married (basically eloped) We were a little nervous calling everyone because we didn't know if they were going to be upset because they weren't invited, but they were just happy for us. Fast forward a week later...I go to my mailbox to get our mail and we have about 10 envelopes with best wishes cards and ALL contain checks...AND THEIR STILL COMING IN....We feel bad in accepting them since they were actually not at the wedding..My husband (Whoo-hoo..husband) say's its bad etiquette if we send them back, so we are going to accept the generous gifts...sooo my question is how do I word the thank you cards for people that did not actually attend, but still sent us a generous gift? Have any suggestions?