im having a hard time deciding, if i should have coworkers at my wedding or not? some of these people im not even close with but since everyone is talking about my wedding they are all expecting to just come. if i were super rich and could do this i would but im saving, along with my fiance and my mother. sure i could ask for help but i will not.
i have a feeling if i leave certain people out they will be upset with me when i come back to work. one even said [while i was not in attendance mind you] "i will not donate any money if im not invited". i never asked anyone for anything. why would he lash out like that? i dont want any hard feelings but people should be more understanding yes?
so what should i do to tell everyone at my job i cannot afford to invite everyone to my wedding?
this is so hard and stressful. i am searching post and reading ideas on this as well but i felt the need to vent and get opinions in my own post. thanks to whomever reads this.