FI and I flew to Colorado (where I was born and raised) 2 weeks ago for my Uncles wedding and received an astonishing amount of negativity towards the fact that we aren't having our wedding in CO (and why would we)!
I shouldn't feel obligated to get married there just because it's where I was born and raised. All this has me in a major funk!
How do I address family members who have such negativity towards our decision to get married in CA (where we live and where we plan to raise a family)? Especially, when one of them is your Gramma!?
I'm a grudge holder. It's my flaw and sometimes I just can't push passed it. And now part of me just wants to axe my family from the guest list (with a few exceptions) since they're finding it so hard to be supportive.