maid of honor or man of honor

KatibabyD9

i have been having problems with my maid of honor, and i dont know what to do from her drinking to not going with me but one time and ive gone like 10 to look at dresses and she wasnt even there for me when i was lookin at dress but ones fpor her.....should i drop her and go with someone else or how should i deal with it i dont want to cause tension between us but this is hurting me bad.

coufalwedding

does she know you feel this way? I would talk with her about your concerns and tell her as the date comes closer, you'll need more of her time.. and remind her of her duties in accepting the position in the first place.. reminder her too you won't be hurt if she wants to drop out, but that you feel this way..and right now, you need to know what she's been thinking. goodluck sticky one. but dealing with it.. sucks in general...

KatibabyD9

thanks for the help....its just a scary thing to say to someone who has been your best friend ya know! but i do thank u for your help!