My fiance and I were going over our guestlist last night and the question of having kids at our wedding or not came up. He realllly wants to have an adult only reception, which was fine for me as well, but when looking over the guestlist it became more of an issue. I have a couple relatives where they have kids ranging in different ages. For ex. my uncle has a daughter who is 17, but the rest of his kids are around 8-10. How do you invite the seventeen year old, but not the others? Also, he has many relatives who are out of town and will prob. not come if it is an adult only reception because they do no want to leave their kids. And I dont want to risk not having the people we care about due to this issue. Also, another thing... my nephew who is 5 will be the ring bearer. And I do not want people to be offended. Any suggestions?