Hello everyone! I need your help. I have been engaged since january 2009. Right away my FILs told us that they would help. Now we are 5 months from the wedding and it seems they don't have the money or an idea of the rehearsal dinner (among other things they said they would help with). I am a little disappointed but not surprised. They still want to do it but I'm worried my fiance and I will be stuck with the bill. I really just want to tell them that it's not necessary. Should I see how everything pans out or should I tell them to not worry about it?