Sending Save the Dates with Holiday Cards? Is this a do or a don't?!We are sending our save the dates out in December...early, yes I know, but our wedding is on a holiday weekend and we have a million OOT guests. We are trying to decide whether to send them with our hoiday cards or not. This will also be our first year that we send holiday cards to family and friends. I am just worried that people will think it's tacky to send them together. Opinions?