So FI and I are well under way when it comes to planning our wedding. We have just about everything taken care of that can/ought to be done by this point. However, I do not have an e-ring. I am perfectly ok with this particular quirk of our relationship but I worry that at my shower next month my family and friends will think it odd that I don't have one. Did any of you ever get engaged without a ring? If so, what kind of reactions did you face when people found out?