3 and a half men?! We watch that...NBD.Seriously though, you want a ring and he refuses to get you one so you will go get one yourself?! Thats seems...odd and not right.
I don't think you should get married. Bad plan.Here's why:You're supposed to marry someone you love exactly the way they are when you meet them. There shouldn't be any dealbreakers like not being able to accept the other person fully when you are discussing marriage. I wouldn't even stand for a relationship where that was the case.You need to set higher standards for yourself...and a test is a one-time deal. It doesn't mean anything changes with you and that suddenly you are all-accepting. If you can't accept him and love him exactly as he is right now, then don't marry him.On that note - boyfriend knew I wanted a ring if a proposal was in our future, before we started dating. I made it very clear that it was important to me. Ex-Husband did not think it was of any importance, just like yours. And he didn't take the marriage seriously either. It's a sign of your boyfriend not being able to make small sacrifices for you, if he wants to marry you for real he would be willing to do anything to make it happen. A man will make his woman his however he has to if he really wants her. If he doesn't care that much then why would you marry him?I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but I've been there and see the red flags all over it. Differences of opinion on matters of principle do NOT go away once married - they get worse. Trust me - this is why I divorced my ex.